The First 30 Days of Your Divorce Process in PA

The early days of your divorce set the tone for the rest of the process here in Bucks County, PA. This is because Pennsylvania is somewhat unique in its requirements, but also in the options that it gives to divorcing couples.

Filing for divorce

Your first step is to determine whether your divorce will be no-fault or fault. Most divorces are no-fault, in which neither spouse is accused of wrongdoing. Pennsylvania defines specific “faults” on the part of a spouse which can be used as grounds for divorce, including adultery, desertion, or emotional or physical abuse. Even when these conditions are met, many people still try to take the no-fault route, if possible, as it is generally easier, less expensive, and less stressful.  

 No-fault divorces can proceed in two ways:

• Mutual Consent: If both of you agree to the divorce, you will both file a document called an Affidavit of Consent.
• 1-year separation: One party signs a Section 3301(d) Affidavit stating that they have been separated for a minimum of one year.

What to do before or after filing

First, decide which method you are going to use for the divorce. Do you want to work through your divorce peacefully, with a mediator or through collaborative law, or do you want to go to court and turn all the power over to a judge to decide your future?

I have chosen to specialize in mediation and collaborative law because I have seen the devastation that litigated divorces can wreak on individuals and families. Court divorces are by nature combative and stressful, take years to settle, and can devastate the finances of both spouses and consume their children’s future. And in the end, the judge decides your fate.

With mediation or collaborative law, even prior to filing for divorce, you can discuss property division, spousal or child support, custody, and other practical aspects of the divorce.

With the help of a mediator, you can set boundaries for communication and social interaction, and establish a schedule to ensure your children can see both parents during the transition period.

These are all important steps, and as a mediator and collaborative law professional, I can help you through these steps to set a peaceful tone for your divorce process. Divorce can be uncomfortable, but it doesn’t have to be devastating to your emotional, familial, or financial health. Reach out to our Doylestown, Bucks County office at (215) 345-5259 for a complimentary consultation to see how we can help you.