Pennsylvania Custody: Summer Schedules
Child custody arrangements and summer schedules go hand in hand with beach plans and vacation getaways for separated and divorced parents.
During the school year, it is easier for co-parents to manage the schedules of their children as they are much more regimented. However, come summertime, the lack of a consistent schedule frequently causes parents difficulty and unnecessary headaches. You can still get ahead of the curve by planning ahead so that you can avoid frustration and enjoy the time you have with your children this summer.
Did you plan ahead? Often parents with a court mandated custody and visitation order are provided with school year and summertime guidelines to follow. However, the summer schedules are typically much less specific. Do your best to communicate with your co-parent so there is an agreement about how your time will be allocated. Insistence on strict schedule adherence will ensure some headaches. Lay out a plan – together – and stick to it.
Tell your co-parent about vacation plans. Clearly communicate with your co-parent when you intend to go away. It is likely that both parents will want to take the children on vacation and often they are interested in common weeks (Labor Day, etc.) It is important to consider what is best for the children and to make a mindful choice as to what is best for the kids. If you plan to take your children out of the country on vacation, the other parent has a legal right to know where they will be at all times. Be forthright with your plans so that your co-parent is comfortable with your intentions to minimize friction.
Co-ordinate logistics for summer camp. If both parents work during the summer months, summer camp might be a good idea. Use your communication and scheduling skills to coordinate drop-offs and pick-ups so the children arrive safely and on time. Be upfront about the price so you can discuss frankly how the cost will be divided, if it is not already stated in your support agreement or stipulation.
Be flexible. Know right now that there will be things that do not go the way you hoped. It is frustrating, but it is ok. Be prepared to compromise, and do your best to keep your ego at bay. A little flexibility can go a long way in helping you give your children an enjoyable summer.
Remember: if summer custody is not spelled out in your current custody agreement or stipulation, it’s not too late to ask the court to intervene in custodial disputes. Call my office today to schedule a free first consult at: 215-345-5259.
– Jennifer Gardella for Elissa C. Goldberg, Esquire
Law Office of Elissa C. Goldberg
107 North Broad Street, Suite 211
Doylestown, PA 18901